I'm not who I was, nor who I will be.
I am who I am, right now.
Flawed. Imperfect. Learning. Growing.

• I refuse to live my life in fear.
• I am authentic to myself, unapologetically. I won’t dilute myself for anyone.
• If somebody won't accept me for who I am, it's all about them, not me.
• I say what I believe, and I do what I say.
• I will not settle for less than I deserve.
• I won't be a spectator of my life. Time is short.
• Confidence is a choice.
• I focus on what I can change, not what I can’t.
• I don't own events, or their reasons, but I own how I react to them. The reasons will follow.

• I am inclusive, kind and caring.
• My needs, thoughts and feelings are valid, as are those of other people, even where they differ. I avoid making projections or assuming otherwise.
• I respect others’ boundaries, and also my own.
• Listening, not judging or telling, is the foundation of healing.
• Bodily autonomy is not negotiable.
• Overthinking is destructive. Don’t.
• Life is a journey of continuous learning and growth.
• I forgive myself for my mistakes, but own them and learn from them.
• I learn from the past, plan for the future, but live in the present.